April 30, 2006

Love in Many Language

Rust did the test and posted on his blog. I have a similar book by Gary Chapman. Bought it in Sydney some 4 years ago. A friend borrowed it from me a few weeks ago and since he just returned me in the past week, I thought I will flip through some pages...

After my first reading of the book years ago, I did figure out what is my love language. But since the quiz was available, I thought I will give it a try :)

The Five Love Languages

My primary love languages are probably Acts of Service and Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Acts of Service:
Quality Time:
Physical Touch:
Words of Affirmation:
Receiving Gifts:

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

The results were quite the same as what I had thought it was, probably except that I didn't think that both Acts of Service and Quality Time would be of equal score. Looks like I am not a gift person... but I wonder why the score is zero when I do like/enjoy gifts, especially when they are things that you would like to have/own. Well who would reject a gift right? ;)

2 other thoughts:

The Rust said...

Dun worry about the tests lah. It's only a gauge. Maybe if the rest was like a 100 questions, you'll get gifts on top of the list! But mine is pretty accurate. But i thot my gifts should be higher than my acts of service. Maybe the gifts questions aren't very good.

island said...

but actually the results of the test is quite correct... except that my score on gifts probably should not be zero :P

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